If you’re an atheist or skeptic there is good decent chance that you look upon sports with a certain highbrow disdain, mocking those who take it too seriously. Every year, on the verge of Super Bowl Sunday, I’m faced with a barrage of jokes from my freethinking friends demonstrating their hipster ironic ignorance, apathy, and/or contempt for gridiron football. I’m not entirely sure why people feel the need to do this, but probably it is some form of social signaling leftover from high school: I’m not one of those guys, I’m one of these guys.
Personally, I would say that the most healthy attitude to adopt would be to let everyone have their own fun and not waste any time talking down other forms of recreation. My favorite meme on point directly compares geek fandom to football fanhood:
These folks get it. Everyone loves dressing up as their favorite on-screen character, which is why hotcakes wish they could fly off the shelves like replica Peyton Manning jerseys. Once you start to see all the different fandoms as expressions of similar underlying human needs, you can let go of grade school rivalries and broaden your own horizons in the process. Some people who enjoyed the cheap beer and expensive commercials yesterday are planning to geek out on their next major sci-fi convention road trip, and that is okay. We are allowed to inhabit different recreational spaces, or rather, we should be.
Of course, not everyone is willing to take a live-and-let-live approach to other folks’ idea of a good time. Consider the following five top voted commercial spots, along with a small sampling of the social media reaction thereto:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ih4VYnbm6Sw
.@Hyundai you can do better. 'Women are bad drivers" is an outdated and ridiculous stereotype #NotBuyingIt #SB50
— Jennifer Siebel Newsom (@JenSiebelNewsom) February 8, 2016
Maintaining the "women are bad drivers" trope is as ridiculous as a whole town filled with Ryan Reynolds #SB50 #NotBuyingIt #everydaysexism
— Mather Center (@FloraStoneWomen) February 8, 2016
So over the whole "women are bad drivers" trope, @Hyundai #NotBuyingIt
— Sam Aurilia (@SamAurilia) February 8, 2016
@Hyundai Ryan Reynolds couldn't distract me from your super sexist, offensive commercial. #notbuyingit #3percentsb
— Annie Sloan (@anniesloan) February 8, 2016
Ugh really? Women can't drive trope bc they are distracted by Ryan Reynolds? #NotBuyingIt #3percentsb
— ilana (@ilanallama1) February 8, 2016
Another miss for @Hyundai – In their world, women are bad drivers who get distracted by the mere sight of a man. #NotBuyingIt #SB50
— Reproductive Freedom for All (@reproforall) February 8, 2016
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNS7qJ1D4S4
This one gets a free pass. Rescue dogs in trenchcoats are amazing. Even PETA is on side with it:
Love that all these #DoritosDogs are rescues – the BEST breed! ❤️ #AdoptDontBuy #SB50 #Doritos pic.twitter.com/ieqdlIbhEe
— PETA (@peta) February 8, 2016
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rFQ-QSAMpag
Doritos has never cared about women to begin with. #NotBuyingIt
— Shannon Miller (@ShannonL_Miller) February 7, 2016
All the males in my living room, who are incapable of giving birth, just burst out laughing at that Doritos ad. #NotBuyingIt #SB50
— MeredithOBrien (@MeredithOBrien) February 7, 2016
https://twitter.com/miss_tbuck/status/696482859008135169
#NotBuyingIt – that @Doritos ad using #antichoice tactic of humanizing fetuses & sexist tropes of dads as clueless & moms as uptight. #SB50
— Reproductive Freedom for All (@reproforall) February 8, 2016
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOlfhBT8i9I
Too adorable for words. Another free pass.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-R_483zeVF8
Someone tell Kevin Hart and Carfinder that what a dad's gotta do is respect and trust his daughter. #SB50 #NotBuyingIt
— Upworthy (@Upworthy) February 7, 2016
https://twitter.com/iam_charli/status/696478730626195457
https://twitter.com/joshkinchen/status/696478778797768704
https://twitter.com/damnitdisney/status/696478170359332864
https://twitter.com/melovecoffee/status/696479269334097920
Please @Hyundai – dads don't need to police their daughter's sexuality. And that idea certainly won't sell cars #NotBuyingIt #SB50
— Jennifer Siebel Newsom (@JenSiebelNewsom) February 7, 2016
Hey, @Hyundai – taking away your daughter's autonomy and stalking her on a date isn't funny. #NotBuyingIt #SB50
— Reproductive Freedom for All (@reproforall) February 7, 2016
The takeaway lesson here appears to be that if an advertiser has the temerity to feature men and women in any sexually-charged situation (including, oddly enough, having an ultrasound) then they are likely to draw the ire of the #NotBuyingIt crowd. If an advertiser features dogs being cute, they are probably safe.
I suppose it is possible, in theory, that poking fun of the well-known overprotective Dad trope might make some fathers even more protective than they already are. It may be that Doritos is guilty of “humanizing fetuses” and promoting sexist stereotypes about both men and women. Hyundai should perhaps be upbraided for telling the world that women, much like men, are capable of being distracted by sexy people.
Or maybe these online media critics are desperately looking forward to the chance to be offended on behalf of women everywhere. Much like dumping on someone else’s fandom, it gives one the chance to feel enlightened while signaling virtue to one’s preferred in-group.
Your thoughts?